When this discipline of the tongue is practiced right from the beginning, each individual will make a matchless discovery. He will be able to cease from constantly scrutinizing the other person, judging him, condemning him, putting him in his particular place where he can gain ascendancy over him and thus doing violence to him as a person. Now he can allow the brother to exist as a completely free person, as God made him to be.This will work today equally well for everyone, not just seminarians under threat of persecution and death, both men and women alike. I'd say more, something possibly sarcastic or judgmental, but I'm going to practice silence instead.
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